Self Care: Six Top Tips For Parents

It’s nearly twelve months postpartum and life has started to settle into a new normal. The baby is no longer a baby, the house is no longer EVER tidy and I’m no longer really capable of pulling off the ‘but I’ve just had a baby’ line. It’s time to stop focusing on everything else and practice a little self care. It’s time to get back to me. But where do you start with reclaiming your body (and mind) postpartum? Here are a few tips to help you along the way…

Self Care Tips

Carve out some ‘you’ time

Since becoming a parent, ‘me’ time has become a thing of the past. How can one tiny person take up so much time and energy? And once they’re in bed, there’s always a mountain of jobs to get through, meals to eat, things to sort and a bed to fall exhaustedly in to! But carving out a bit of me time is a hugely important part of reclaiming your body postpartum and your mind. Remember what you used to do pre-parenthood? Maybe it was reading a book? Perhaps it was zoning out in front of the TV watching trash? Or it could be having a good soak in the bath in peace! Set aside half an hour in the evenings to do just that, put down the washing pile and step away from the hoover, some things are more important.

Give yourself a health MOT

As a parent, we ofter prioritise everything other than ourselves, including our health. It’s easy to overlook minor health complaints or keep up with routine check ups when you’re running around after others, but this can lead to bigger issues in the long run as you fail to pick up complaints and niggles early enough. Don’t forget we’re not just talking about dental check ups here; an overall health check up is certainly worth performing covering all aspects of your life from cholesterol levels to weight and even women’s health screening – all of which you can do at home if you need to. Find out what your health is like currently then set yourself a plan to tackle or treat any areas you may be concerned about – trust me, you’ll feel better for having the whole picture!

Find your exercise

Whether it’s going for a walk, hitting the weights at the gym or stretching it out on the yoga mat, finding the exercise that suits you is 90% of the battle. Whether it’s with friends or alone, exercising releases endorphins which help to boost your mood, not to mention the calorie burn/toning that’s happening along the way. If you’re unable to find some child-free time, why not incorporate them into your workout, either with baby-wearing (extra resistance) or having a dance party workout with them in the lounge. This month I’ve been hitting the gym twice a week with a friend, it’s short, sweet and always straight after we’ve done bedtime so I’m not missing out on family time!

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Supplement your life

I’ve always been a skeptic of supplements but they’re a quick and easy way to make sure your body is getting the extra nutrients it needs to keep you healthy and looking at your best. There are many different types on the market at all sorts of price points, I’ve been trialling Lumity Life recently. Lumity is aimed at women over 30’s, helping to boost our energy and hormone balance to improve sleep levels… exactly what I need (they also list supermodels amongst their fans so I’m hoping some of that glamour will rub off by association). Vitamins are a big part of supporting a healthy body if you don’t have the perfect diet. Brands like Life Botanics have a range of products to help with anything from energy levels to your libido.Whatever supplement you go for, be sure to do your research as some can contradict other medication you may be taking.

Supersize your sleep

If you’re getting less sleep than you used to, then you need to be getting the most out of that limited snooze fest. Try some of our top tips for getting a good night’s sleep or my favourite tips from the experts to help you out in the bedroom. I’ve found since opening the window each night to create a cooler room, I’ve slept far better!

Create your own diet plan

Food food food. Breastfeeding failed to help me shed weight but did succeed in making me ravenous. Being at home during the day, running around after small people and juggling a hectic home life, often means that we’re grabbing food on the go. Planning your meals for the week and having healthy snacks on hand helps stop that fridge raid. If diet plans work for you then now is the time to find one that you can honestly stick to, there’s no point in signing yourself up for a juice plan right now if that’s going to leave you in a grump all day long! I’ve found going back to basics helps, with plenty of yummy healthy options available as we come into summer – a yummy salad, anyone? Give yourself a treat at the end of the day to look forward to as well, for me that’s a curly wurly or two!

What are your top tips for taking care of yourself?



  • kris 5th May 2017 at 1:30 pm

    That’s really interesting that breastfeeding didn’t help you to shed the weight as that’s one of the pro’s I always hear when talking breastfeeding. I find self-care a constant battle, with 2 kids a husband, house and a blog there never seems much time just for Kris.

    • DevonMamaOnline 5th May 2017 at 10:37 pm

      Absolutely none! I’m sure it would have but I took full advantage of eating for two still It’s hard finding time isn’t it? I think it’s important to raise it for that very reason!

  • Nicola 5th May 2017 at 1:38 pm

    Self care is so important! I haven’t had a single second of my own over the last eleven months. Even when it was Neil’s time to look after the baby, I was still running around finding wipes for him, sorting out food and cleaning and tidying. Part of the reason why I’m kind of excited to go back to work!

    • DevonMamaOnline 5th May 2017 at 10:26 pm

      It’s sad that we need to do that to get a bit of space isn’t it?! I’m my own worst enemy as well!

  • Stacey 8th May 2017 at 4:30 pm

    I think the “me time,” has been the hardest one of these to carve out. I don’t quite manage it every day, but once or twice a week I get a soak in the bath.

    I think the other way I’ve kept my sanity is a regular date night. We started going out monthly when our eldest was 6 weeks, took a break during my second complicated pregnancy and have just started again now our youngest is 8 weeks.

    My husband and I just go for dinner or to watch a film – just something together. And Nan and Grandad babysit

    • DevonMamaOnline 8th May 2017 at 8:51 pm

      I would agree, me time is definitely hard to find. It’s hard to get some time and not do jobs or fuss over others, just leaving stuff and focusing on you for once! Date night sounds perfect, I really need to implement this in our house. We’re guilty of always saying we will but never ACTUALLY doing it!

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