How To Set Goals And Achieve Them In Six Easy Steps

New Year’s resolutions always make me chuckle. How many times have you sat there, drink in hand on the 31st of December and decreed that you’re going to change your life in the next 365 days? Just me? Annually?! How many times, come January 2nd have you broken those promises? Just me, again? Come on now guys, I know you’re fibbing. Perhaps it’s blogging goals instead that you want to set; what do you want to achieve for the next year? What are your aims?

The truth is that any resolution or goal is notoriously hard to keep. We set them with the best intentions of overhauling ourselves and yet year after year, we find ourselves lacking. You and I are not alone. What if I told you it didn’t have to be that way? What if, with some simple help, you could learn tricks for how to set and achieve your goals. Interested? Read on…

Set goals that you WANT to achieve

There’s no point in setting yourself a goal if you’re not motivated to achieve it. It’s all very well saying you want to gain thousands of followers but unless you really want to get there and are willing to put in the work then don’t bother. You don’t HAVE to set any goals if you’re just happy as you are, don’t feel pressured to – a far healthier alternative to setting yourself a goal that you’re guaranteed to fail at before you’ve begun. Any new goal is going to push you so unless you’re committed and motivated to get there, you’re going to start to resent putting in the effort. With that in mind, pick a target that you really, really want to get to.

Make your goal SMART

SMART stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time-bound. What does THAT mean? Rather than saying “I want to be better at blogging” define what that means to you. For example, does that mean you want more people to subscribe? More followers on social media? A goal such as “I want to grow my blog following this year” specifies further what you want to achieve. It’s still a little fuzzy isn’t it? Make your goal SMART; “I want to grow my subscribers list by 10% in the next 12 months”. Finally, something we can work with.

  • Specific – your goal should be well defined and easy to understand
  • Measurable – how are you going to measure what you’re starting point is and your progress? Define a metric that you can easily get such as twitter followers (for social media)
  • Achievable – aiming to go from 10 followers to 1,000,000 is a great target but pretty hard to make happen. Don’t jump straight in to winning the London marathon. Think about what you genuinely believe you can achieve with a little hard work.
  • Realistic – what resources do you have? If you need to invest money in order to achieve your goal and you’re just not in a position to do so then is this the right time for this goal? Take a look at your knowledge, resources and time and make sure you’re not setting yourself something that just isn’t going to happen.
  • Time-bound – any goal should include a time limit, otherwise you’re likely to go on for eternity. Again, make sure it’s feasible and one that you can work with realistically alongside your other time commitments.

Chunk it

It sounds like the morning after a heavy night out but chunking up and down is a technique taught by business coaches. Chunking down is the more common of the two – take your big goal i.e. growing social media followers from 1000 to 3000 in twelve months and break it down into manageable chunks. Each chunk can have mini goals of it’s own. For example, the obvious thing to do is to break that 2000 follower gain down into monthly targets. (Top Tip: start with less per month at the start of the year and then increase your figures i.e. +150 the first month, +400 in month twelve, as your ‘savvy’ grows). Breaking big targets into smaller ones makes it feel more manageable and allows you to track your progress as you go. Plus it’s WAY less daunting.

Accountability and reward

When you share a goal with others, you’re making yourself accountable to them. If you’re not prepared to share then be accountable to yourself. Plan in your targets and the tasks you need to do each week to achieve them. Then, tick them off as you go! Reward based schemes tend to work well here for people – use your mini targets to give yourself little treats or perks as you achieve them – invest in some artwork you’ve wanted for a while, have a meal out, celebrate with a bit of me time… If you share your goals with others, make sure they’re going to be happy when you hit your mini targets too. It’ll help keep you motivated and on the road to success.

Push yourself

Your goal should be achievable but only if you push yourself. What’s the point in setting yourself a target that you could achieve with very little work in the first place? The only person you’re kidding there is yourself. Instead, look at what you could achieve without trying. Then look at what your ultimate goal is if you could pick anything. Try to pick a target that’s in the middle. You want to be stretched enough to work for it but not so stretched that you’re NEVER going to achieve it. Getting that balance is one of the key cornerstones of goal setting so don’t be afraid to…

Re-assess your targets periodically

It’s all well and good setting a target at the beginning but what if life gets in the way (you can read about my experiences of that here!)? Even those with the best of intentions can’t help the unforeseen. You are not infallible or a psychic – well, maybe! – you can’t know with complete certainty that there aren’t going to be times when you just can’t get the job done. If you’re behind your target, take a moment to re-assess them. Why haven’t you achieved it? What went wrong? Did you aim too high? Did you over-commit yourself? Then look at whether or not this is likely to be the case going forward. Look at your upcoming smaller goals – are they still realistic? Are they still SMART? There’s no harm in reviewing your goal as you go providing you’re not changing it every five seconds. Give yourself a few weeks to see if it’s something you can recover from and if not, look at what needs to change. Maybe it’s the timescale, maybe it’s the goal itself.

And that’s it! With these easy steps, keeping and achieving your goals should be a breeze. Well, not THAT easy but you’ll be set up for success at the very least! How do you set goals? Let me know if you think there are any we’ve missed!

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  • Nicola 5th January 2017 at 1:52 pm

    I like this. You should share it on LinkedIn, very business minded. I can’t say I miss SMART goals that I had to set in my 121s in work ????????

    Seriously though, these are great ideas for bloggers who want to grow and use a few of them myself to set goals and follow through. Blogging is pretty similar to my line of work in that it’s all about the sell. You can’t sell without a target or a goal and you can’t sell if nobody knows about your product. The reward of achieving the goals is definitely the best bit for me. And I don’t mean the bonus or whatever other incentive there may be in the workplace. I just like the buzz of hitting target. That’s why I like blogging so much. So much reward from someone like your post/tweet/page.


    • DevonMamaOnline 5th January 2017 at 8:29 pm

      Ahh thanks, I’d love to but I don’t understand LinkedIn at all! I have it for work and that’s about it! I think it’s all quite work related though, I’m very much the same as you and driven by hitting targets rather than actually getting the final product if that makes sense. So blogging etc appeals for the very same reason! x

  • Amy 5th January 2017 at 3:41 pm

    Some great tips! I’m going to try the chunking down method to make it seem a little more achievable 🙂 thank you! ox

    • DevonMamaOnline 5th January 2017 at 8:32 pm

      Do it! I found that the most helpful thing before when I was setting goals at work. I like to set myself (and reward myself!) for little mini-goals along the way. That way it’s far less daunting! Good luck x

  • Emily and Indiana 5th January 2017 at 7:41 pm

    Some brilliant ideas, definitely think the SMART approach is a good one to follow! I didn’t set myself any goals this year – I’m just hoping for a good one 🙂 x

    • DevonMamaOnline 5th January 2017 at 8:31 pm

      That’s pretty much my goal too! I have a few things I’d love too achieve but last year was so all over the place that I just want to enjoy this year for what it is! Have a great 2017 x

  • Helen @Talking_Mums 5th January 2017 at 8:18 pm

    I’m so glad you posted this. I’m rubbish at resolutions and so the last couple of years decided to set targets/aims instead! Good advice I will take on board x

    • DevonMamaOnline 5th January 2017 at 8:30 pm

      I’m rubbish at them too! Atleast with goals I think there’s more motivation to succeed in them. Good luck with yours for the year x

  • Lindsey 5th January 2017 at 8:28 pm

    You are so right about goals being notoriously hard to keep, but love your ideas for planning, espcially the CHUNK IT technique! Thank you for sharing


    • DevonMamaOnline 5th January 2017 at 8:35 pm

      Thanks lovely, I find chunking things down far easier. Otherwise I always give up REALLY quickly. I have the attention span of a gnat so mini-goals help me to keep things on track!

  • Daddy Poppins 5th January 2017 at 8:52 pm

    Delighted to read some sensible goal advice. So many people either undersell themselves or make unrealistic goals and then give up.

    It’s all about accountability and reviewing. If you don’t measure then you will not achieve.

    Great piece.

    • DevonMamaOnline 5th January 2017 at 9:06 pm

      Thanks, I think it’s just as important to set personal goals as it is to set them in the workplace. Nothing worse than the wishy washy ones people set – how will you know when you’ve got there? Thanks for the feedback.

  • Claire 5th January 2017 at 10:39 pm

    this is why I can’t keep any resolutions I make, because I forgot the SMART technique I used in high school haha! I joke, these are so bloody clever! I really need to make a note of these actually, I am that person that forever fails at resolutions, literally the week after I made them haha! Thanks 🙂 xx

    • DevonMamaOnline 9th January 2017 at 11:03 am

      That’s usually me too, I’m determined to attempt to follow my own advice, I just need to find some resolutions to have in place first!! x

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